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RobS's avatar

My reaction is “Indeed! But also…” During periods of introspection over the last decade or so I’ve wondered whether I qualify as an “average” male. Not in a qualitative sense of course (I don’t dare go there!) but empirically. Do the respectful and collaborative men you mention, and those like them, outnumber those who are not? It’s simple math, and unfortunately observation suggests it’s a close call. Recently though I sense the mudslingers, fakes, and unprincipled among us may be losing sway ever so slowly. Or at least not gaining any ground. Which brings me to my point. You remind us about Joy, yet I believe Joy has a collaborator. They are intertwined in a symbiotic relationship. That collaborator is named Hope.

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Eileen Dougharty's avatar

This is such a thoughtful, nuanced piece that avoids all the bashing that alienates those who are just trying to understand. That requires a deft touch. I am most impressed, and I am honored to be included in your chorus of voices in the conclusion. Thank you so much, Elizabeth xoxoxo

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